Ideas For Living Newsletter

Vol 7. Issue 6 (June 2010)  ISSN   1553-8648

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ARTICLE TITLES
1.
Make Each Day Count
Important Topics : time, improvement, consistent daily effort and progress, make each day count,  small incremental improvements over a period of time
, confident, assertive,  goals, focused,

2. Moving Beyond Disappointments And Failure
Important Topics :  disappointments, failure, perspective, mistakes, reflect, self-understanding, desire, evaluation, realism, planning, priorities, feedback, patterns, challenges, problems, a course correction,

3.
 The Symbiotic Relationships We Have And Becoming United Through Compatibility
Important Topics: symbiotic relationships, parents, married, family, mutualistic relationships,  commensal symbiosis, parasitic symbiotic relationship, loving couples, united marital partnership,

4.  
TakeThe Time To Remember Veterans
Important Topics :  memorial day, freedom, arlington national cemetery, military, soldiers, flag,  cleaning graves, veterans’ graves, cemetery etiquette, returned soldier from iraq,

 

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Click  here for Vol. 7, Issue 7 (July) or here for Vol. 7, Issue  5 (May).

Quote (s) Of The Month : “What you do with each day ultimately becomes what you do with your life. Over time days become weeks, weeks become months, and months become years. The only way to affect your life is on a daily basis. So make each day count.” Leland Pulley

 Archives : We have reisssued some past newsletter articles and they are available in our  Archive area.


 

THINGS TO CONSIDER TODAY    - A column by Leland Pulley that looks at issues and concerns in the lives of people and provides insights to help address them.

Make Each Day Count

Most goals in life are not accomplished in a day, week, or month. Many things are accomplished over an extended period of time. Achievement is measured in steps or degrees of improvement. It often shows up in better quality or more quantity. Whatever you want to do or accomplish, you will eventually learn that consistent daily effort and progress will pay you great dividends in the long run.

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Moving Beyond Disappointments And Failure

Over the years any adult will have some disappointments and experience failure to various degrees in activities, endeavors, and relationships. And the older this adult becomes, the more real and meaningful this statement becomes in his life.

I now have a few decades of adulthood behind me, and with this has come increased perspective. In looking back I can certainly see mistakes and wrong decisions. I wished I would have done certain things instead of other things. I wonder how much I could have achieved compared to what I did achieve. But my track record is absolute. It bears witness for and against me. The only thing I can do at this point is learn from the past and strive to do better in the present . Hopefully in the future I will look back on today and be happy with what I see. Take a moment to reflect on your life and see if these statements apply to you also. And then ask why many things are so obvious now and weren’t at the time?

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LIFE IN THE MIDDLE TODAY  - A column by Colleen Pulley that illustrates how to face the challenges of life, make choices, and move onward; and in the process experience more joys along the way.

The Symbiotic Relationships We Have And Becoming United Through Compatibility

Several years ago I was worried about the moss that was growing on an oak tree in our yard.

I took a sample of the moss to our local nursery, and was told not to worry about the moss. The nurseryman told me that the relationship between the moss and the tree was a benign symbiotic one. Basically neither species was being harmed by the other. Based upon this information, I left the moss on the tree, and noted that they did exist one with the other without any outward damage.

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Guest Article by Sarah Gentili

Take The Time To Remember Veterans

Memorial Day has become associated with many things in our society. Sadly, most of us associate this holiday with four day weekends and great shopping. Very few of us take the time to appreciate what this special holiday is all about, remembering those who have died in war to protect our freedom. Their sacrifice gives us the freedom to enjoy that long weekend or take advantage of all those good sales. Like everything else, the real meaning of this holiday has gotten lost in the reality of our daily lives.

Cemetery Visit To Honor Fallen Soldiers (by Justina Gentili , age 12) 

When you hear Memorial Day, most people think of four day weekends and no school. I thought just that until I heard at my church, that we youth were going to a cemetery to put flags on Veterans’ graves. To me, that was not my idea of fun. The whole week, I thought about how the cemetery activity wouldn’t help me learn anything. I was clueless on the meaning of Memorial Day. I didn’t understand it enough, nor truly appreciate it.

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